Take this short quiz to assess how well you're stepping into your masculine role in your relationship.
1. When it comes to date nights or outings, who usually decides what to do?
A) I usually plan and let her know in advance.
B) We decide together after a long discussion.
C) She usually decides because I want her to be happy.
2. If your wife asks, "What should we do tonight?" how do you respond?
A) I suggest something based on what I know she enjoys.
B) I ask her what she feels like doing.
C) I tell her I don’t know and let her choose.
3. Do you take the initiative in planning small, thoughtful surprises (like picking a restaurant or a weekend activity)?
A) Yes, I enjoy planning these things.
B) Sometimes, but I usually ask for her input first.
C) Rarely, I leave that up to her.
4. When there’s tension in your relationship, do you reflect on whether you’ve been stepping back too much?
A) Yes, I check in with myself and make adjustments.
B) Occasionally, but I’m not sure how to change it.
C) No, I assume it’s just part of relationships.
5. Do you feel like your wife has to take charge and organize things often?
A) No, I take the lead on most plans.
B) Sometimes, but I try to be involved.
C) Yes, she handles most decisions.
Results:
✅ Mostly A’s: You are leading with intention and helping create balance in your relationship. Keep it up!
⚖ Mostly B’s: You are somewhat engaged but could step up more to relieve her from always deciding. Small changes can make a big difference.
🚨 Mostly C’s: Your wife may be carrying the mental load. Start taking charge in small ways to restore balance and connection.
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